tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4473504781372872915.post4011874319954491770..comments2021-01-18T06:19:53.814-05:00Comments on Don't Rest On Me | A Lifestyle Blog: How to Love People Who Don't Love ThemselvesLaurel Noellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02449451365657943231noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4473504781372872915.post-68952792957352836192016-03-22T09:47:38.820-04:002016-03-22T09:47:38.820-04:00'You cannot hug his broken pieces back into pl...'You cannot hug his broken pieces back into place. You cannot change his reflection in the mirror. You cannot fix him, because he is not broken. '<br /><br />I'm trying to forget the broken past and move on. Hope you are good.Nanhttp://www.lionshome.co.uknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4473504781372872915.post-87862376784178800532016-03-06T21:33:59.032-05:002016-03-06T21:33:59.032-05:00"Just don't get so caught up in trying to..."Just don't get so caught up in trying to help them that you forget to help yourself." LOVE THIS!<br />Gail Aranashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02083388295401922910noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4473504781372872915.post-60816862430716970302016-03-06T18:16:32.434-05:002016-03-06T18:16:32.434-05:00This was such a beautiful post with some great rem...This was such a beautiful post with some great reminders! Thanks for sharing. Jasmine Eclipsehttp://www.jasminekeclipse.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4473504781372872915.post-66206440485147826612016-03-06T18:06:29.336-05:002016-03-06T18:06:29.336-05:00This is a very thought provoking post, thanks for ...This is a very thought provoking post, thanks for sharing!!<br />Hayle xx<br /><br />www.hayleolson.comAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05946267133764714106noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4473504781372872915.post-67860964541194359292016-02-29T15:55:30.663-05:002016-02-29T15:55:30.663-05:00These are great tips. It's so hard to love som...These are great tips. It's so hard to love someone who doesn't love themselves.Miss Angiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09341344758917665733noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4473504781372872915.post-23523786438467449602016-02-28T20:51:16.778-05:002016-02-28T20:51:16.778-05:00Lovely post. No matter how unconditional your love...Lovely post. No matter how unconditional your love for another, it is never enough if they don't love themselves.Mommy Needs a Vodka Breakhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11364022836327827990noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4473504781372872915.post-40103287273317623272016-02-25T22:27:29.042-05:002016-02-25T22:27:29.042-05:00This is all too true. Thanks for writing such a go...This is all too true. Thanks for writing such a good post on a subject that so many of us have experienced before in our lives. Lana // Blog Authorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02374970417238451022noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4473504781372872915.post-55036360656455051792016-02-25T00:57:35.909-05:002016-02-25T00:57:35.909-05:00Definitely get the whole loving someone who doesn&...Definitely get the whole loving someone who doesn't love themselves or others. And it doesnt even have to be in a romantic sense. It's a hard lesson to just move on either for good or until they learn to love down the road. jenniferrlunahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06086472784044494767noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4473504781372872915.post-6703367623659352482016-02-24T18:29:29.243-05:002016-02-24T18:29:29.243-05:00I agree 100%! People overlook the relationship the...I agree 100%! People overlook the relationship they have with themselves far too often. How can you love someone else if you can't even love yourself, ya know? I struggled with this as well and once you learn to love yourself, you truly do have the ability and capacity to love in such a stronger manner.Laurel Noellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02449451365657943231noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4473504781372872915.post-85363761960878727592016-02-24T18:27:52.182-05:002016-02-24T18:27:52.182-05:00I think expectations can be bitter sweet. It is go...I think expectations can be bitter sweet. It is good to have a set of standards for both yourself and who you surround yourself with. At the same time, expectations set us up for failure. It's so easy to fall for the idea of someone rather than the person themselves. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and have a lovely day!Laurel Noellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02449451365657943231noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4473504781372872915.post-7376626701776446432016-02-24T18:25:45.914-05:002016-02-24T18:25:45.914-05:00It is incredibly hard, if only people could see ho...It is incredibly hard, if only people could see how truly wonderful they are. Thank you and I wish you a great Wednesday!Laurel Noellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02449451365657943231noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4473504781372872915.post-39147004031869527082016-02-24T18:24:07.930-05:002016-02-24T18:24:07.930-05:00Thank you so much, have a spectacular day!Thank you so much, have a spectacular day!Laurel Noellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02449451365657943231noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4473504781372872915.post-45819539108659258712016-02-24T18:23:31.898-05:002016-02-24T18:23:31.898-05:00I'm so happy to hear you two are able to help ...I'm so happy to hear you two are able to help each other with that! It sounds like you two have quite a beautiful relationship. Have a lovely day!Laurel Noellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02449451365657943231noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4473504781372872915.post-23684236190162459722016-02-24T18:17:15.995-05:002016-02-24T18:17:15.995-05:00I think the only way to the learn this lesson is t...I think the only way to the learn this lesson is the hard way sadly! On the bright side, at least you come out a stronger person. Thank you for reading, have a wonderful day.Laurel Noellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02449451365657943231noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4473504781372872915.post-57285603954840405192016-02-23T07:13:44.094-05:002016-02-23T07:13:44.094-05:00Such a wonderful read. In my early-mid (to late) t...Such a wonderful read. In my early-mid (to late) twenties, I was the person struggling to love themselves and I can now see how they directly affected my relationships with my friends, family, and significant other. Making the investment to learn to love yourself, no matter how you have to learn, is the best investment anyone can make. Danielahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02974545425331928492noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4473504781372872915.post-41772632932432531042016-02-22T22:29:45.666-05:002016-02-22T22:29:45.666-05:00Really wonder article. So often the biggest issue ...Really wonder article. So often the biggest issue in any relationship (romantic or platonic) is the expectations we place on them. It's also why we are often let down. All The Things I Dohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13886138884382765000noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4473504781372872915.post-62968225864711758912016-02-22T21:13:01.404-05:002016-02-22T21:13:01.404-05:00I've learned this the hard way... a couple of ...I've learned this the hard way... a couple of times. It's hard when you see so much in someone and just want them to see what you see in them. Love is such a complicated emotion. I'm not sure I have much to add to this article. You've written it so well. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12657171210638745825noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4473504781372872915.post-15119417237533731602016-02-22T19:33:35.386-05:002016-02-22T19:33:35.386-05:00I'm not sure that there's anything I can a...I'm not sure that there's anything I can add to this except ... yes. Wow. Yes. Fabulous post. :) Anything I might add would be too personal for the people involved, and I don't have the right to do that.Marie Beausoleilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02372553450561961944noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4473504781372872915.post-90830525068865502002016-02-22T17:37:17.733-05:002016-02-22T17:37:17.733-05:00I'm so lucky that this hasn't happened to ...I'm so lucky that this hasn't happened to me. Both my boyfriend and I struggle with anxiety and broken pasts, but we have found in each other a companion and we both work on encouraging each other to love ourselves, even before the other (Harder done than said). This is a very eye-opening article. Very well written. It's sad how true this is, but all anyone can do is stay strong and be there for that person (:Gingerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12740322311530129829noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4473504781372872915.post-20002316629040983722016-02-22T17:36:23.621-05:002016-02-22T17:36:23.621-05:00This is totally a lesson that I had to learn the h...This is totally a lesson that I had to learn the hard way. Good intentions and hoping can change how a person feels about themselves no matter how hard we try. Incredible, thought provoking post. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11528542518101642258noreply@blogger.com